Love is more than a passing feeling or a moment of passion—it is a deep and lasting commitment. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 reminds us that real love is patient, kind, and selfless. It is not about fleeting emotions or “emotions running riot.” It is about the choices we make even when it is difficult. Thomas Aquinas defined love as “to will the good of the other as other.” This means love is not about personal gain but about genuinely seeking the well-being of another. On Valentine’s Day, it is easy to celebrate love, but the real test of love comes in everyday life, especially during difficult moments.
True love is not just about passion but about perseverance. Feelings may come and go, but love is what remains when emotions fade. A couple that has been married for decades will tell you that love is not always exciting, but it is a daily decision to stay, serve, and support one another. Friendships and family bonds also require the same level of commitment. Proverbs 17:17 says, “A friend loves at all times.” This means love is not just for when things are easy but also for when patience is required, forgiveness is needed, and sacrifice is necessary.
The highest example of lasting love is found in God. His love for us is unwavering and unconditional. Romans 8:38-39 tells us that nothing can separate us from His love—not trouble, failure, or hardship. If we want our relationships to last, they must be built on the same foundation of commitment and selflessness. Love that endures is not about what we feel in the moment but about the choices we make every day. Take a moment to acknowledge the love in your life today. Then ask yourself: Are you choosing love that lasts, or are you chasing temporary feelings?
