A man on a mission must be mindful of how they think about and handle their family ties. You have to be careful in how you handle friendships. While family is one of heaven’s greatest gifts, it can unintentionally hinder or even stifle a divine assignment. When you’re pursuing a challenging path, friends and family, though well-meaning, can sometimes become obstacles to your progress. It’s important to approach these relationships with wisdom, tact, and love, understanding that they may not fully grasp your calling. Balancing your commitment to your mission with your love for family requires discernment and grace.
The first thing you must accept is that nothing is more important than your mission. Jesus made this clear in Luke 14:26, where He emphasized that anyone who doesn’t “hate” (or prioritize less) everyone else in their life cannot truly be His disciple. This wasn’t about fostering negativity but about ensuring that your mission remains your top priority. Similarly, Apostle Paul reminded Timothy in 2 Timothy 2:4 that soldiers—men on a mission—don’t get entangled in irrelevant matters or side-trips. They stay focused on their mission, aiming to fulfill their duty and earn the approval of their commanding officer.
So, focus on your mission and give it your best shot. Even if your friends and family don’t understand it right now, trust that with time, they will come around. Remember how Jesus’ own brothers initially teased Him over His calling, but later joined His mission after His resurrection. In the same way, with patience and consistency, your loved ones will eventually see the value of your work and offer the support you’ve always wanted. But until then, stay committed to your mission. Stick to your work, and let the results speak for themselves.
