He That Watereth

There are potential consequences of failing to take enough responsibility in a relationship. When you refuse to acknowledge your role in conflicts or misunderstandings, it breeds resentment and hinders open communication. This can strain the relationship and make it difficult to find solutions together. Over time, you may lose mission-critical relationships. With no one to blame but perhaps yourself. Imagine a marriage where one partner constantly blames the other for everything. Over time, the blamed partner may feel unheard, unappreciated, and eventually withdraw emotionally. The relationship suffers as a result.

Relationships are important because it is nearly impossible to achieve success on one’s own. There is no biblical hero who accomplished everything on their own. They always worked with a partner or a team. Perhaps the only exception is Samson, whose story is often used as a cautionary tale rather than an example to follow. If you want to watch over your world, you can’t do it alone. You’ll need mentors, friends, allies, and teammates. You put the work at risk by refusing to recognise the importance of having others as invested in the mission as you are.

As a result, no matter who or what you are, you should do everything within the realm of common sense to maintain your friends and mission-critical relationships. Don’t always try to take the high ground. You will not always be correct. You must be prepared to rise above your ego. Taking responsibility does not imply assigning blame; rather, it means acknowledging our contributions to the situation and working towards positive change. Imitate Christ by praying for the people in your life, regardless of their position (Luke 22:31-32). We can build stronger, more resilient relationships by cultivating an accountability culture and encouraging open communication.

Sometimes in life, you’ll feel stuck. It will appear that nothing is working, and you will be unable to proceed with your work. Sometimes it feels like the entire universe has conspired against you. In these situations, emotional responses may be understandable, but they are completely unnecessary. What you should be doing is determining your next step. Find your next move. Embracing this mindset will allow you to navigate adversity with resilience, shifting your focus to actionable solutions. In times of stagnation, the need is clear: it’s not about the setback, but about figuring out the next step forward.

The first step is to acknowledge that God is always in control. Nothing surprises Him, and you must believe that everything will work out in the end for your good. Draw strength from 1 Corinthians‬ ‭10:13‬ ‭(ESV‬‬), “No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.” The key is to keep your heart steadfast in faith.

With your heart in place, now let us find your next move. You have to review the facts and circumstances without any emotional sentiment. What exactly is the nature of the situation, and why does it appear to be difficult? Things are rarely as bad as they appear on first glance. So, as you write down what is going on, you will start to see things in a new light. At this point, you should be able to determine what (legal) moves you have available, just like a chess grandmaster. If nothing is obvious, it may be a sign that you need counsel. There’s always safety in counsel.

Humans have a natural tendency to avoid doing work. We always put off doing the work as long as possible. However, as you may have heard, “Hard work is the only shortcut to success.” There are no shortcuts or magic buttons. Some things just take time. It is critical that you settle down and recognise that the vision is for an appointed time (Habakkuk 2:3). It is not a time you choose. The algorithm that determines the timing is unknown to us, mere mortals. This understanding will allow us to run with patience the race that is set before us.

Write your vision and make it clear. Thereafter, perhaps you can manage your expectations by considering how long it took others with a similar vision to achieve it. No matter how big your dreams are or how talented you appear. Please be informed that there is nothing new under the Sun (Ecclesiastes 1:9). People who have walked the earth before you have had similar visions, and it is your responsibility to seek them out and learn what you can. If recorded history shows that it takes 50 years to accomplish the things you want to do, why do you believe you can do it in 5 years?

Embrace the journey. You cannot pray or bribe the process away. You cannot outmanoeuvre your way. Do not be in a hurry. While the end goal is important, the hard work and lessons learned along the way are what truly shape us. While it is natural to want quick results, understanding that great achievements rarely happen overnight is critical. Learn from the experiences of those who have walked similar paths before you, and recognise how their journeys can serve as valuable guides. The vision in your heart will come true at a time determined by God (Galatians 4:1-2). Approach your work with that perspective.

Do not be quick to complain about the level of results you are achieving in your life and business. Don’t be quick to complain about your perceived lack of progress or slow progress. First and foremost, accept that the vision in your head represents a future season (Habakkuk 2:3). Then you should understand that it is incorrect to count slackness in the same way that men do (2 Peter 3:9). You may feel like you’re moving too slowly. But, from God’s perspective, you are at the centre of His plan for your life, and you are on track.

You must accept in your heart that God loves you far more than you love yourself. This helps you understand that heaven always wants the best for you. And that every setback or failure is helping you develop the skills, mindset, and character required for your glorious purpose. Good parents frequently withhold things from their children when they believe they are not ready for it. They want the child to mature more before granting them the change in status and privileges. If a parent (or god!) granted all of their children’s wishes and whims, the result would be chaos.

Therefore, humble yourself under God’s mighty hand. Trust the path and process He has outlined for you. When your dreams come true and you become a formidable force driving your world’s economic and financial development, the dots will connect. Everything will start to make sense. Nevertheless, if you want to know whether you’re too slow or not, seek godly counsel. You should be sensitive enough to know where to go when you need honest feedback about your journey. Whatever happens, don’t ever feel slow because someone you consider a peer appears to be moving faster than you. Stay on course and run your race.

Habakkuk 2:3 in the New Living Translation provides clarity and comfort: “This vision is for a future time. It describes the end, and it will be fulfilled. If it seems slow in coming, wait patiently, for it will surely take place. It will not be delayed.” This verse illuminates two crucial points: First, the vision you carry within you is destined for a future time, signaling that you are merely at the starting point. Second, despite any perceived delay, the fulfillment of your vision is assured. Therefore, there’s no need to fret or become restless; instead, wait patiently for its unfolding.

Just as a child must grow and mature before inheriting their full rights, so too must you develop into the person capable of fulfilling your vision. Galatians 4:1-2 illustrates this journey, comparing the heir to a child who, despite being the owner of everything, remains under guardians and managers until the appointed time set by their father. Similarly, you may possess grand ambitions and aspirations, but growth and preparation are necessary before you can fully step into your destiny. Embrace this season of growth, understanding that it’s preparing you for the responsibilities and opportunities that lie ahead.

In the early stages of pursuing your vision, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed and doubt your abilities. However, with persistence and practice, you’ll improve over time. Consider the example of learning to ride a bike. Initially, you may struggle to balance and keep upright, falling numerous times. The truth is that you are far from as capable or awesome as you believe you are. You cannot fully deliver on your promises because you are still a work in progress. The good news is that you will grow and gain the skills required to succeed. You will eventually reach your desired destination. Don’t worry about it.

Your vision is valid, even if progress seems slow. Habakkuk 2:3 reassures, “For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarries, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not delay.” Patience and perseverance are key. It is natural to feel discouraged because, despite the time, energy, and resources invested, nothing is happening. However, you must keep moving forward. Remember that perseverance is required to achieve success. You must continue long enough for your mission to make a positive difference. Stay steadfast; your breakthrough is on the horizon.

Consider the books that profoundly impacted you; many were published years before you discovered them. Similarly, dynamic teachers of God’s word often gain recognition after years of ministry. How many excellent TV shows or innovative apps were only noticed after multiple seasons or years of operation? To make a lasting impact in today’s world, enduring until your work is noticed is essential. There is so much noise and confusion that it takes some time for you to come through. Persist through the seasons of obscurity, allowing your labor of love to grow and take root. Your perseverance will eventually lead to recognition and influence.

To navigate the journey of enduring until your vision is realized, practical steps are vital. Start by gaining confidence and clarity on your mission through prayer and meditation. These practices strengthen your resolve and determination to persevere. Commit to taking massive action, understanding that the vision may take time to manifest. Prepare your mind for the journey ahead, embracing patience as an essential virtue. Seek godly counsel at every step, drawing wisdom from trusted sources. Additionally, network with like-minded individuals who can offer encouragement and support along the way. With faith, determination, and a supportive community, you can endure until your vision becomes a reality.

There is no shortage of creativity. However, to create something truly remarkable with your creative talent, you must concentrate. That’s where the problem is. In today’s world, distractions abound, especially with the proliferation of digital platforms. The constant buzz of notifications and the allure of social media feeds can easily hijack your attention. Your mind naturally gravitates towards the path of least resistance, making it challenging to focus on deep work or creative pursuits. It’s not that you lack the spirit or energy to invent; rather, you’re often too distracted to nurture your creativity effectively. Without discipline, inventive ideas may remain elusive amidst the noise of constant distractions.

Scripture reminds us of the importance of concentration and focus. In Colossians 3:2, we are encouraged to set our minds on things above, not on earthly distractions. Similarly, Proverbs 4:25-27 urges us to keep our eyes focused straight ahead, avoiding distractions that pull us away from our goals. By aligning your thoughts with God’s Word and cultivating a disciplined mind, you can overcome the allure of constant distractions and tap into your creative potential more effectively. Remember, it’s through persistent concentration on what truly matters that you can bring your innovative ideas to fruition.

The reality is that you channel creative energy every day, expressing it in different forms. However, without concentrated focus, your creative potential may remain untapped. To truly make an impact with your creativity, you must cultivate persistent concentration on what truly matters. You will never unleash your inventions if you only think about them once in a while. Digital platforms like social media, while sometimes necessary, require disciplined use to extract maximum value without succumbing to their distracting allure. By honing your ability to concentrate amidst the noise, you can unlock the full potential of your creative mind and bring your innovative ideas to fruition.

Leaders accept responsibility for what happens around them. Followers never accept responsibility for anything. It is always someone else’s fault that things don’t work. They blame their parents, siblings, teachers, and the government for everything. Clearly, we must all strike a balance between accepting full responsibility and accepting none at all. Accepting full responsibility for everything and anything may crush you. However, remaining aloof and failing to accept adequate responsibility may limit your ability to achieve much in life. When it comes to relationships, regardless of the type, you must accept some responsibility for the situation.

This is not about tolerating a lot because you don’t want to lose anyone. Over time, you will realize the importance of setting clear boundaries and determining what you can and cannot tolerate. The idea is that many destiny relationships fail because neither of the parties is willing to care for the relationship. It is almost as if we expect angels and other heavenly beings to help us with nurturing relationships. Matthew 5:23-24 emphasizes the importance of proactive measures to reconcile and maintain healthy relationships, even over religious practices.

The Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37) exemplifies the concept of taking responsibility for the well-being of others, including those outside our immediate circle. A teacher must be responsible for their students’ learning. The student must accept responsibility for their learning. It goes both ways. Both lovers in a relationship must agree to do whatever it takes to make things work. You do not have to wait for your protégé to contact you; you can also initiate contact. Ephesians 4:32 encourages us to take responsibility for our actions in relationships by practicing kindness, compassion, and forgiveness towards others, mirroring God’s forgiveness towards us.

Thierry Henry, a retired professional footballer from France, is widely regarded as one of the sport’s best strikers. Despite a highly successful career that included numerous club and international titles, including the World Cup with France in 1998. Henry battled with doubt and mental demons. In an interview with the Diary of a CEO podcast, Henry said: “Throughout my career, I must have been in depression. Did I know it? No. Did I do something about it? Obviously no. But I had adapted in a certain way.” His comment reminds us about just how difficult it is to perform and succeed at the highest levels consistently.

In 2 Timothy 2:3, Paul admonishes believers to “endure hardness, as a good soldier of Jesus Christ.” Thierry Henry’s journey echoes this sentiment as he navigated the challenges of professional football. His successful career came at a cost. While he may not have been clinically diagnosed with depression during his playing career, Henry acknowledges the inherent difficulties he faced. Like a soldier in battle, he endured the rigors of constant scrutiny, performance pressure, and personal struggles without succumbing to defeat. This resilience speaks to the endurance required to pursue greatness in the face of adversity.

Life demands toughness. Henry’s acknowledgment of enduring hardness reflects the reality that achieving greatness often involves overcoming obstacles and persevering through tough times. While it’s crucial to prioritize mental health and seek support when needed, resilience is also essential. You must accept the reality that in order to achieve the great and mighty things you desire, you must be willing to make sacrifices. As a result, consider the costs and make sure you truly want this life. However, you are not alone. Leaning on Christ’s strength empowers you to face life’s challenges with courage and fortitude, knowing that endurance produces character and hope (Romans 5:3-4).

In Philippians 3:2, Paul’s warning to “beware of dogs” underscores the seriousness of false teachings infiltrating the faith community. These teachings, often stemming from subjective spiritual experiences, can lead to a distorted understanding of biblical truths. When individuals rely solely on personal encounters or interpretations without grounding them in the broader context of Scripture, they risk propagating incomplete doctrines. Such teachings, while well-intentioned, may inadequately equip believers for the challenges of navigating the complexities of the real world. Therefore, it’s essential to discern and resist messages that deviate from the foundational truths found in the Bible.

If someone wakes up today with a revelation about becoming a medical doctor, they must still go through the educational system to obtain the necessary training. A rigorous medical training grounded in established scientific principles. Engineers cannot invent their own laws of physics, and similarly, preachers cannot fabricate their own theology divorced from biblical teachings. Yet, we’ve somehow given certain preachers the creative license to formulate their own theology. Preachers that prioritize their own subjective spiritual experiences over objective scriptural truths, leading to a theology that lacks solid grounding. This departure from the Holy Bible poses a grave danger.

Thus, it is critical to maintain the primacy of biblical authority in shaping theological understanding. Anything other than this can lead to distorted doctrines that are unfit to guide believers through life’s challenges. Individuals aspiring to spiritual leadership must adhere to the foundational truths. You cannot simply create your own biology or engineering principles, so why are you now developing your own theology? A theology or doctrine that does not undergo peer review. 2 Peter 1:20-21 warns against private interpretation of Scripture. We always need two or more witnesses to establish something as true. Be careful not to be an enabler of the dogs that are destroying your world.