As Christians, love is our calling. We are taught to love unconditionally, just as Christ loves us. But love is not the absence of wisdom. In our relationships we must learn to relate with love but operate by law. Whether personal, professional, or even within marriage. It’s not a lack of faith to protect yourself with legal agreements or safeguards. It’s wisdom. The Bible clearly teaches us that the heart of man is deceitful and desperately wicked (Jeremiah 17:9). We do not always know people’s true intentions. That is why we need both love and structure.
This principle becomes even more important in a world where betrayal, manipulation, and deception are not uncommon. You love people, but that love should not make you vulnerable to harm. For example, if you’re going into business, sign clear contracts. You can’t always rely on gentleman agreements. You cannot always trust that people would do right by you. It’s not about fear; it’s about stewardship. God is a God of justice and order. Jesus said to be “wise as serpents and harmless as doves” (Matthew 10:16). That balance, of being innocent in our love, yet wise in our dealings is key. That’s the key to thriving in today’s world.
Blind love is not biblical love. True love walks hand-in-hand with righteousness and justice. We are not called to be foolish or reckless in our kindness. If you want your relationships to thrive long-term, then make sure they are built on both love and law. Let your affection be sincere, but let your foundations be secure. Do not be afraid to ask hard questions, clarify expectations, or involve wise counsel when necessary. Love deeply, but also protect wisely. That’s how we reflect the full counsel of God. It’s not just love, but truth, righteousness, and justice.
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